Sunday, April 27, 2014

Dating One Oh One, in search of a spiritual connection by OdiliaRivera-Santos

Being in tune with another human being requires that we, as individuals, undergo individual tuneups.

Strengthen the ability to focus on one thing at a time.
We have many mini-lives inside the major life. What keeps us moving forward is the need to feel we have accomplished something.
Set Personal Goals, which help with motivation and humility because they serve as a tranquil reminder of the finite amount of time we have on the earth.

Work as an Extension of You
Being engaged in work in an authentic way. Doing work that matters, not just a gig. Work can amplify the positive or negative tendencies of a person's character.

Sit down. Shut up. And do nothing
Just Being without the need to prove anything to anyone or keep busy for busy-ness's sake. 

Nature
Go somewhere sedate: a museum during off hours, a park or a meditation class.
Enjoy nature in whatever way possible -- buy a plant, go to the farmer's market, stare at a tree.
Sensory relaxation to balance out the overload, especially for those of us who live in the city.

It is about opening up the spiritual channels for something different.
A partnership can only be romantic if there is a certain sense of self-satisfaction on both sides.
You have to love you first.

Did you hear that?
It was a butterfly with the hiccups


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