2. The insecure partner delves deep into your life and psyche to bring you down. This rabid little individual will focus on everything he/she believes you 'should' be doing and act as director in your life. Sometimes, this type plays God as well because as shim explains it, if you follow shim's directives, you will be rich, famous, happy and own a home with gold pipes.
The insecure partner focuses on your potential, your flaws, and your mistakes in order to avoid looking at shim's own potential, flaws, and mistakes.
This person doesn't have much going on and is very fearful. You, the stronger more motivated half of the relationship are the power source. But you have a finite amount of energy and can't afford to have it siphoned off by the insecure partner. Inequity in perceived power to act in the world will not allow anything good to come of the union.
You can renovate and flip houses, but not people.
The insecure person attempts to raise his/her self-esteem by projecting their fear and lack motivation onto you.
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